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                                                                      HELP FOR CHILDREN

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SCRIPTURAL SUPPORT: Certainly! The Bible provides practical guidance for children that can help shape their character, values, and behavior. Here are some practical tips derived from biblical principles that can be beneficial for children:

  1. Respect for Parents and Authority: The Bible emphasizes the importance of honoring and obeying parents (Exodus 20:12; Ephesians 6:1-3). Children can practice this by listening to their parents, showing respect, and following their instructions.

  2. Kindness and Love: Jesus teaches us to love one another and treat others with kindness (Matthew 22:39). Children can learn to be kind, compassionate, and forgiving towards their siblings, friends, and classmates.

  3. Honesty and Integrity: The Bible encourages honesty and integrity in our words and actions (Proverbs 12:22; Ephesians 4:25). Children should be encouraged to tell the truth, take responsibility for their actions, and avoid deceitful behavior.

  4. Responsibility and Diligence: The Bible emphasizes the importance of being responsible and diligent in our work (Proverbs 12:24; Colossians 3:23). Children can learn the value of hard work by completing their chores, school assignments, and other responsibilities to the best of their abilities.

  5. Self-Control: The Bible teaches self-control as a fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23). Children can practice self-control by managing their emotions, impulses, and desires in appropriate ways.

  6. Prayer and Dependence on God: Encourage children to develop a personal relationship with God through prayer (Philippians 4:6-7). Teach them to bring their joys, concerns, and needs to God, seeking His guidance and help in their daily lives.

  7. Forgiveness: Jesus teaches the importance of forgiving others (Matthew 6:14-15). Children should be encouraged to forgive those who have wronged them and seek reconciliation when conflicts arise.

  8. Gratitude: Teach children to be grateful for the blessings they have and express gratitude to God and others (1 Thessalonians 5:18). Encourage them to appreciate the little things in life and cultivate a thankful attitude.

  9. Humility: The Bible teaches us to be humble and not to boast (Philippians 2:3-4). Encourage children to recognize their strengths and abilities while respecting the worth and dignity of others.

  10. Reading and Studying the Bible: Foster a love for God's Word by encouraging children to read and study the Bible regularly. Help them understand its stories, teachings, and principles, and apply them to their lives.

Remember, it's essential to teach these principles through age-appropriate discussions, examples, and engaging activities. Parents, guardians, and church communities can play a vital role in providing practical Bible help for children.

 

 

TEACH CHILDREN THE BIBLE

Teaching children about the Bible and its practical lessons is a wonderful way to help them develop a strong moral and spiritual foundation. Here are some practical tips and ideas to engage children with the Bible:

  1. Simplify the language: Use age-appropriate Bible versions or storybooks that present the biblical stories and concepts in a way that children can easily understand.

  2. Storytelling: Narrate Bible stories to children in a captivating and interactive manner. Use props, visuals, or even act out the stories to make them come alive.

  3. Visual aids: Utilize visual aids such as picture books, flashcards, or videos that illustrate the Bible stories and teachings. Visuals can help children better grasp the concepts and retain the information.

  4. Application of lessons: Encourage children to connect the stories and teachings to their everyday lives. Help them understand how the lessons from the Bible can be applied in their interactions with family, friends, and others.

  5. Memory verses: Teach children short Bible verses that they can memorize easily. These verses can serve as guiding principles and help children internalize biblical teachings.

  6. Discussion and reflection: Engage children in discussions about the stories they've learned. Ask open-ended questions to encourage them to think deeper and reflect on the lessons.

  7. Prayers and thanksgiving: Teach children to pray and express gratitude to God. Encourage them to talk to God about their joys, worries, and desires, fostering a personal connection with their faith.

  8. Service and compassion: Emphasize the importance of serving others and showing compassion, just as Jesus taught. Encourage children to participate in age-appropriate acts of kindness and charitable activities.

  9. Role modeling: Set a good example by demonstrating the values and teachings of the Bible in your own life. Children learn a great deal by observing the behavior of trusted adults.

  10. Regular reading: Establish a habit of reading the Bible together regularly. Make it a special time by creating a cozy and comfortable environment.

Remember, children learn best through a combination of teaching methods that engage their senses and cater to their developmental stage. The goal is to help them not only understand the stories but also apply the lessons to their lives, fostering a lifelong love for the Bible and its teachings.

 

 

                                            SOME PRACTICALLY HELPFUL TIPS FOR TRAINING CHILDREN:

  1. Establish a routine: Help your child establish a daily routine that includes regular sleeping patterns, meals, study time, playtime, and chores. A consistent routine can provide structure and stability, helping children feel more secure.

  2. Encourage healthy habits: Teach your child the importance of maintaining a healthy lifestyle. Encourage regular exercise, nutritious eating, and proper hygiene practices such as regular handwashing.

  3. Foster open communication: Create an environment where your child feels comfortable expressing their thoughts and emotions. Encourage open communication, active listening, and empathy. This can help them develop strong interpersonal skills and navigate their emotions effectively.

  4. Encourage reading: Reading is essential for language development, critical thinking, and imagination. Encourage your child to read regularly, both for pleasure and educational purposes. Set aside time for reading together or discussing books to make it more enjoyable.

  5. Limit screen time: Excessive screen time can have negative effects on a child's physical and mental well-being. Set reasonable limits on screen time and encourage your child to engage in other activities like outdoor play, hobbies, and social interactions.

  6. Teach time management skills: Help your child learn how to manage their time effectively by setting priorities, creating to-do lists, and establishing a schedule. Time management skills are crucial for academic success and overall productivity.

  7. Promote problem-solving skills: Encourage your child to think critically and solve problems independently. Support them in identifying challenges, brainstorming solutions, and evaluating the outcomes. This fosters resilience and self-confidence.

  8. Cultivate good manners and kindness: Teach your child the importance of being polite, respectful, and kind to others. Encourage them to practice good manners, empathy, and consideration towards friends, family, and the community.

  9. Foster independence: Allow your child to take on age-appropriate responsibilities and tasks. Encourage them to make decisions, solve problems, and manage their own belongings. This promotes independence, self-reliance, and confidence.

  10. Encourage creativity and exploration: Provide opportunities for your child to explore their interests and express their creativity. Offer art supplies, encourage imaginative play, and support their involvement in hobbies or activities they enjoy.

Remember that each child is unique, and it's important to adapt these tips to suit their individual needs and personality. Parental guidance and support are crucial in helping children thrive and develop into well-rounded individuals.

 

Further Reading:

  1. Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right. Honour thy father and mother; (which is the first commandment with promise ;) That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long on the earth.(KJV) Ephesians 6:1-3

  2. Children, obey [your] parents in all things: for this is well pleasing unto the Lord.(KJV) Colossians 3:20

 

                         

                   THE IMPORTANCE OF CHORES TO CHILDREN

                                 What you should know:

  1. Chores contribute to a child’s maturity

  2. Chores prepare children to serve others

  3. Chores promote family unity

                                 What you can do:

  1. Start young while they are still with you to imitate you. Prov. 22:6

  2. Assign age-appropriate chores

  3. Place a priority on chores. Phil. 1:10

  4. Focus on the objective rather than the result. Eccl. 3:22

  5. Set right reward and focus on it.

 

 

                         HOW TO COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR TEENAGER

                               Why it happened:

  1. The quest for independence

  2. Abstract thinking

  3. External influences

                            What you can do:

  1. When possible, have casual chats. Deut. 6:6,7

  2. Keep it brief and straight to the point. Prov.1:1-4

  3. Listen-and be flexible without interrupting. Phil.4:5

  4. Stay calm, no matter what they say. Prov.10:19

  5. To the extent possible, guide don’t dictate. Heb. 5:14

 

 

                      HOW TO DISCIPLINE YOUR TEENAGER

                               Why it happened:

  1. Unclear boundaries

  2. Rigidity

                            What you can do:

  1. Be clear- write a list of your house rules. Gal.6:7

  2. Be Consistent- make consequence relevant with the crime. Matt.5:37

  3. Be Reasonable- show yourself to be a flexible parent. Phil.4:5

  4. Build Positive Character- search the bible, it’s the best source. Prov.1:1- 4; 1Peter3:16

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